B-day weekend
Friday, Nov 6, 5:00 am. The alarm goes off. I get up thinking “Oh boy, is it early… Just because I really need to swim today…” Then I hear “Happy birthday!” Ah, true! It’s today. “Thank you!” I had forgotten (or, let’s say, I had not entirely waken up). But Olesya didn’t.
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Fairly normal day in the office. I call Jacob Wirth to make a reservation. No luck, they say they are no longer taking reservations for the day. What are we going to do? It’s about 15 people who already confirmed. Well, let’s not change plans. We’ll show up and get in line for a table, and get some snacks or drinks (coke for me) at the bar while we wait.
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I get home, and I am ready to leave for dinner. But not so fast! Olesya has a small cake for me, with candles and everything. Mmmmhhh!!! We eat some cake before heading for dinner.
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Jacob Wirth is up to the expectations. OK, the food is simply good enough, and so is the service. But the place is nice, it has some, let’s say, “character,” and I am very happy to see all the friends who keep coming. Nice conversations, nice to be together. The piano guy starts playing, and many people in the restaurant start singing along. Little by little, more people participate in the singing. Then we completely ignore the piano guy, because Myongjin is singing, a capella, for the birthday boy (i.e., me); a complete hit —even the bar tender was clapping and cheering. Eventually we end up leaving the tables, and go to stand around the piano, together with other people, and sing for a while. Anyway, we really had a great time!

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Saturday is uneventful. Some household chores (take care of one of the closet’s doors, try to replace a light fixture…). We eat well and try not to get our legs too tired. We have a race next day. Almost every year (and this goes back to the time we were in Chicago), I try to run a race around my birthday. Kind of like a self-birthday present.
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Sunday. Get up, ready for running. For Olesya it will be her first half marathon on her own —we’ve run other halfs together, but this is her first time doing the race alone. It’s a “women’s only” race. Well, women, and “one lucky guy” chosen by lottery. I am not the “lucky guy” so I am doing the “significant other 5k.” Get some breakfast, and hit the road. The race is in York, ME.
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We get to race location early enough, and we are able to get a parking spot in the high school. Go to the gym; pick up our shirts; eat a mini energy bar; stretch; see Kathrine Switzer in person (didn’t talk to her, but saw her signing books and talking to some more curious or more extroverted runners).
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Warmup. Then I eat a couple of pieces of “uncrystalized” ginger from Trader Joe’s instead of GU (just experimenting; not bad at all). We head to the start line. The 5k starts 10 minutes earlier than the half. It’s only couple of minutes to go, so I say good bye and good luck to Olesya, and get ready. The race starts. First mile mark: right on pace. Second mile mark… not quite, my pace drops badly. It’s getting painful. Very. I think of what Mariana and Miguel are going through, and I realize I shouldn’t be whinning, but running faster (Olesya had a similar motivation towards the end). I try my best. Third mile mark —and 0.1 miles to go: the third mile is surprisingly fast, so much so, that if I could sprint to the finish (which I can’t, of course, because I am giving all I have and I am already pooped) I could have a chance to break 20 minutes. There is the finish line, and it’s already 20 something… nonetheless, I push very hard for the last few steps. 20:11. Not a sub 20, but it’s my fastest time this year. It feels really good.
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I catch my breath. I go to the car to change my shirt, pick up the camera, and head to the half marathon course, to try to take pictures of Olesya. I chat with a couple of “significant others” there, also waiting for their wives. About an hour later, there is Olesya. I had been waiting for this, I had practiced a couple of times in the last hour how to set up the camera and everything. I get ready, start taking pictures, Olesya sees me, smiles, waves… and then she suddenly says “It’s closed!” Uh, oh. I didn’t remove the lid from the lens. Crap. I remove it quickly and take one or two shots, but Olesya is way past me. I feel bad. Olesya is running pretty fast, though; I reckon with this pace she will finish way under 2 hours.
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Back at the finish line, I practice several times with the camera. I take pictures of the first, second and third place, and the “lucky guy,” too. It’s now one hour and fifty something minutes. Olesya must be approaching. I turn the camera on, remove the lid, and wait. There she is! I get ready for the moment she will cross the finish line and… I screw up again, don’t ask me how. Anyway, I run to meet her, and take pictures of her now that she’s not moving. She ran under 1:55; the official “chip” or “net” time will be 1:54:44. Personal best —which probably means, I just slow her down when we do races together!
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After the race, we stop by the Nubble lighthouse. Very nice.
Back home, we finish the day with Indian food, ice cream, a movie (”Where the Wild Things are”) and a nice, relaxed walk to go to get to these places (a good thing to do to loosen up the legs, and get the blood flowing to avoid soreness the next day).
I look back, recall all the laughs and singing from Friday, and the nice race, and Olesya’s PR… And I just think: What a nice birthday weekend! With birthdays like this, it doesn’t feel so bad to get older














